Valentines Day

Happy Valentines Day!  I remember when I was younger I used to love this day!  Chocolates, cards etc...mmmmm.  Now it is almost like any other day.  We don't do much here for v-day...and I don't expect anything from hubby.  He is soooo good to me all year round, he doesn't have to buy me gifts because of a certain day.  I am so grateful of everything he already does.  He understands my pain, helps me around the house and helps me with the kids when he is not working.  I think he feels the same way about me...lol.  When I am not working I do the same.  We help each other to get things done around here!  But he does help me with more of the day to day stuff because of my RA.  I sometimes feel like I am getting on his nerves asking 'can you do this for me''can you do that for me''I can't do this' etc all the time!  I really appreciate all that he does...well at least v-day has made me really think about how much I do appreciate and love him!  And the kids...they just want chocolate!  LOL

-L

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