Appearance
I always run into situations where I meet a new person and we get into the fact I have arthritis…and I always get the same line "But you can't tell by looking at you…you look fine." I know they say it because most of the time it is true. Unless you look closely at my swollen joints or if I happen to have really sore legs that day…I 'look' fine. But why do people feel the need to say that I don't look like I have arthritis? I didn't know there was a specific way to look. Also, I get comments like 'but you are so young'…and when I tell them I was diagnosed at the age of 2 they usually say they didn't even know that kids could have RA. Does anyone else get these kinds of comments…do you say anything in return? -L